Mark Wahlberg & Rhea Durham’s Love Story: From First Meeting to Forever

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It’s no wonder Mark Wahlberg is one of Hollywood’s highest-paid actors. He’s a fantastic and prolific performer, but few know he’s also a grounded family man.

Actor Mark Wahlberg in a Giorgio Armani tuxedo and his wife Rhea Durham in a Marchesa dress at the 79th Annual Academy AwardsActor Mark Wahlberg in a Giorgio Armani tuxedo and his wife Rhea Durham in a Marchesa dress at the 79th Annual Academy Awards held on February 25, 2007, at the Kodak Theatre in Hollywood, Los Angeles (Credit: Nikki Nelson/ WENN)

The Transformers actor and his wife, Rhea Durham, have been together for over 20 years. Dating since 2001, they have four children and tied the knot on August 1, 2009, in a private Catholic ceremony held in Beverly Hills, California.

Growing Up in Mark Wahlberg’s Enormous Family

Mark was born and raised in Boston, Massachusetts. He was the youngest of nine siblings: Tracey, Mitchelle, Donna, Buddy, Arthur, Jim, Robert, Mark, Donnie, Paul, and Scott.

The family lived in a rough area of South Boston, and Mark was involved in several brawls growing up. His parents divorced when he was 11, leaving Mark and the other siblings to split time between his parents’ households.

Wahlburgers is a casual dining burger restaurant and bar chain owned by chef Paul Wahlberg (C) and his brothers, actors Donnie Wahlberg and Mark WahlbergWahlburgers is a casual dining burger restaurant and bar chain owned by chef Paul Wahlberg (C) and his brothers, actors Donnie Wahlberg (L) and Mark Wahlberg (Credit: Michael Carpenter / WENN)

Mark dropped out of school at 14 and fell into the culture of crime that surrounded him. This eventually led to serving part of a prison sentence in response to assault charges.

Marky Mark and the Funky Bunch

By the time Mark was 13, he and his brother, Donnie, were ratcheting up their musical chops as original members of the boy band, New Kids on the Block. Mark resigned from the band after a few months, but Donnie went on to achieve success with the band.

Mark, however, later formed his own group as the lead of Marky Mark and the Funky Bunch. He and his group did take their single, “Good Vibrations” platinum, putting himself in the spotlight for other opportunities in the entertainment industry.

Mark Wahlberg’s Screen Career

After landing on the record charts, American fashion designer Calvin Klein took notice of the buff musician and recruited Mark for their ad campaign in 1992.

Justin Bieber was so proud of his ads for Calvin Klein that he decided to send the photos to his friend Mark Wahlberg, who was a model for the underwear brand when he was youngerJustin Bieber was so proud of his ads for Calvin Klein that he decided to send the photos to his friend Mark Wahlberg, who was a model for the underwear brand when he was younger (Credit: TBS / Conan)

Early on, the Calvin Klein marketing team was able to spot his widespread appeal and printed ads of him alongside supermodel Kate Moss in magazines, store windows, and billboards.

The shoot is still known as one of the most famous and controversial campaigns in modern history. It was only a matter of time before Hollywood got wind of Mark Wahlberg.

Mark Wahlberg as Captain Leo Davidson and Estella Warren as Daena in the 2001 American science fiction film Planet of the ApesMark Wahlberg as Captain Leo Davidson and Estella Warren as Daena in the 2001 American science fiction film Planet of the Apes (Credit: WENN / 20th Century Fox)

By 1993, he would use his moniker, Marky Mark, for the last time in the TV movie, The Substitute. From then on, he resumed using the name Mark Wahlberg for professional acting work, starting with Renaissance Man, where he starred alongside Danny DeVito in 1993.

As a massive Boston Celtics fan, Mark was excited to be cast as Mickey, opposite Leonardo DiCaprio in Basketball Diaries in 1994.

In the following years, Wahlberg racked up massive movie credits. He quickly became a go-to talent for films like Planet of the Apes, The Italian Job, the Transformers franchise, and comedies like Ted and Daddy’s Home.

Mark Wahlberg at a Los Angeles party in 1999 to celebrate the launch of the Absolut Tom Ford/Absolut Gucci advertising collaborationMark Wahlberg at a Los Angeles party in 1999 to celebrate the launch of the Absolut Tom Ford/Absolut Gucci advertising collaboration (Credit: WENN/ Marcus Hoffman)

He has also found success as an executive producer for many shows like the HBO hit Entourage, which is said to be inspired by Wahlberg’s rise to fame.

Mark currently has many projects as both an actor and producer in varying stages of production and pre-production. We’ll likely see more of Mark Wahlberg in the coming months and years.

Mark Wahlberg’s Romantic Endeavors

As a prolific actor and model, Mark was surrounded by some of Hollywood’s most talented actresses and models. As a result, it’s been rumored that he became pretty close to a few.

Mark Wahlberg and Charlize Theron are rumored to have dated while filming The Italian Job (2003) togetherMark Wahlberg and Charlize Theron are rumored to have dated while filming The Italian Job (2003) together (Credit: WENN)

He was in relationships with Jordana Brewster from 2000 to 2001, Rachel Hunter in 2000, China Chow from 1997 to 2000, Reese Witherspoon from 1995 to 1997, Savannah in 1993, Kate Moss in 1992, Soleil Moon Frye from 1992 to 1993, Traci Bingham in 1991, and Jasmin St. Claire.

Additionally, he is rumored to have had connections with Jessica Alba in 2003, Cynthia Kirchner in 2002, Shannen Doherty in 1992, Julie Ordon, and Nicole Eggert.

Model Rhea Durham Steals Mark Wahlberg’s Heart

One day at a press junket in New York, Wahlberg met model Rhea Durham in 2001. Despite Mark’s optimistic 5’8” frame, he asked the 5’9” model if she wanted to go out with him.

When she accepted, he asked if she wanted to attend church the next morning as their first date. Although the Florida native was raised Protestant, she attended Catholic mass with Mark at Saint Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City the following day.

Mark Wahlberg met his taller wife Rhea Durham at a press junket in New York in 2001Mark Wahlberg met his taller wife, Rhea Durham, at a press junket in New York in 2001 (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN)

The two began dating exclusively after that before Rhea actually converted to Mark’s faith in Catholicism. They welcomed their first daughter, Ella Rae, together in 2003.

In a strange twist of fate, Mark also lost his sister, Debbie, the same day that Ella was born due to a heart attack paired with sepsis during treatment for another medical condition.

Mark credits the day as the happiest and the saddest of his life, honoring both Ella and sister Debbie on the “bittersweet” day each year.

Mark Wahlberg and Rhea Durham with their children Ella Rae Wahlberg and Michael WahlbergMark Wahlberg and Rhea Durham, with their children Ella Rae Wahlberg and Michael Wahlberg, attend the Elizabeth Glaser Pediatric AIDS Foundation 20th Annual A Time for Heroes Celebrity Carnival held at Wadsworth Theater on the Veteran Administration Lawn in Los Angeles on June 7, 2009 (Credit: Apega / WENN)

Seven years younger than Mark, Rhea is an accomplished model featured in magazines like French Vogue, ELLE, and Marie Claire. She’s also appeared as herself in the TV sitcom Spin City.

American model Rhea Durham has appeared on the cover of French Vogue, Marie Claire, British and American ELLEAmerican model Rhea Durham has appeared on the cover of French Vogue, Marie Claire, British and American ELLE (Credit: WENN)

The Wahlberg family grew with the addition of two sons, Michael and Brendan, in the coming years. While both Rhea and Mark were blissfully committed to one another, they didn’t tie the knot until much later in 2009.

Mark Wahlberg was joined by his wife Rhea Durham and three of their four kids, Ella, Michael, and Brendan, at the premiere of his movie Transformers: Age of ExtinctionMark Wahlberg was joined by his wife, Rhea Durham, and three of their four kids, Ella, Michael, and Brendan, at the premiere of his movie Transformers: Age of Extinction on June 25, 2014, at the Ziegfeld Theatre in New York City (Credit: Joel Ginsburg / WENN)

The couple was wed with only twelve people in attendance, including their three children. The next year, the Wahlbergs welcomed their fourth and final child, Grace Margaret.

Family Life at the Wahlberg House

Having come from a rough childhood, Wahlberg wants to make sure he provides access to everything his children would need and want. He and his wife, Rhea, are involved in their children’s lives.

The family has been spotted at their son’s sporting games in the crowds. On an episode of Ellen, Wahlberg remembers a time when his song, “Good Vibrations,” played over the speakers.

Mark Wahlberg outside the Sandy Lane Hotel, a luxury resort in Barbados, with his wife Rhea DurhamMark Wahlberg outside the Sandy Lane Hotel, a luxury resort in Barbados, with his wife Rhea Durham on December 28, 2018 (Credit: WENN)

He said you could see his son trying to hide from embarrassment inside his helmet. These days, Mark says he catches the game from inside his car to make sure that his kids get a fair shot at living a normal life.

His daughter, Grace Margaret, is turning out to be quite the equestrian. She and her horse, Daisy Mae, compete regularly- and quite successfully!

Is There Beef Between Wahlberg Wives, Jenny McCarthy, and Rhea Durham?

Rumors sparked shortly after Rhea and Mark’s intimate wedding about whether there was drama among the extensive Wahlberg clan.

After all, why wouldn’t such a family man extend an invitation to his brother, Donnie, and his celebrity wife, Jenny McCarthy? As it turns out, Mark and Rhea were also no-shows for Donnie and Jenny’s wedding.

We may have seen some confirmation of the conflict following a snarky tweet by Rhea, seemingly in response to McCarthy’s social media post sporting pink hair.

Mark Wahlberg's wife Rhea Durham is reportedly not on good terms with Donnie Wahlberg's wife Jenny McCarthyMark Wahlberg’s wife, Rhea Durham, is reportedly not on good terms with Donnie Wahlberg’s wife, Jenny McCarthy (Credit: FayesVision / WENN)

“Don’t u think after age 25 it might be strange for a woman to dye her hair pink, purple, green, or any color of that sort??? #needattention?” Rhea tweeted.

Jenny’s husband, Donnie, was quick to reply, “Imagine the depth of pain somebody must be in, to be unkind to another human being.”

Rhea’s tweet was quickly replaced with a backhanded apology, which ended with “I have more to think about than this. Again Sorry!”

While it’s unclear if the drama between the wives is founded in an actual event, it may be attributed to the fact that the two are polar opposites!

Mark Wahlberg: Entrepreneur and Philanthropist

Wahlberg seems to have his hands in a little bit of everything lately. Mark joined his brothers Donnie and Paul to form Wahlburgers, a fast-casual joint with unique burger offerings. There are currently around 50 locations, including franchised locations.

Mark has also invested in other companies that keep increasing his net worth. He’s backed AQUAhydrate water, which he discovered on set one day.

Its other investors are also in the entertainment industry, like Sean “Diddy” Combs and Jillian Michaels. AQUAhydrate was recently snapped up by another celebrity-endorsed brand, The Alkaline Water Company, which sent AQUA’s owners straight to the bank.

Mark Wahlberg and Sean “Diddy” Combs are active investors in AQUAhydrateMark Wahlberg and Sean “Diddy” Combs are active investors in AQUAhydrate (Credit: FayesVision / WENN)

In 2001, Wahlberg founded The Mark Wahlberg Youth Foundation to benefit inner-city youth. The foundation is a way to fund other outreach programs like the Boys and Girls Club of America and provide additional enrichment programs that inner-city youth wouldn’t otherwise have access to.

They also build basketball courts in underserved communities and offer a yearly summer camp. The MWYF also utilizes strategic partnerships to bring awareness to issues like opioid addiction.

Another somewhat unexpected charitable contribution arose when it was revealed that Mark had received $1.5 million to reshoot scenes from All The Money In The World. In contrast, his female counterpart, Michelle Williams, received $1,000 and a small daily stipend.

Mark Wahlberg was paid $1.5 million for reshooting his scenes in All the Money while his co-star Michelle Williams was paid less than $1,000Mark Wahlberg was paid $1.5 million for reshooting his scenes in All the Money, while his co-star Michelle Williams was paid less than $1,000 (Credit: TriStar Pictures)

Mark donated his entire paycheck to the Time’s Up Legal Defense Fund in Michelle’s name when the imbalance went public. The gesture has been hailed as a generous response to gender pay inequity in the industry.

Mark Wahlberg is clearly unstoppable. He’s broken down barriers between a life of crime and a successful music career. He’s also crossed over from his music career to be one of the highest-paid actors ever.

Winston Duke, Peter Berg, Iliza Shlesinger, Mark Wahlberg at the Premiere of Netflix's "Spenser Confidential"Winston Duke, Peter Berg, Iliza Shlesinger, Mark Wahlberg at the Premiere of Netflix’s “Spenser Confidential” at Regency Village Theatre on February 27, 2020, in Westwood, California (Credit: Avalon / WENN)

Even with more projects in the works, he’s built an infrastructure to lift up those around him and the less fortunate. We’ll have to keep our ear to the ground- we don’t want to miss out on what he and his family are up to next!

Introduction to Sienna Miller’s Career Evolution

Sienna Miller went from a fashionable socialite to a respectable actress and starred in the 2016 American crime drama Live by Night with Ben Affleck.

Sienna Miller wears Ray-Ban round metal sunglassesSienna Miller wears Ray-Ban round metal sunglasses outside BBC Radio 1 in London on January 13, 2017 (Credit: Tony Oudot / WENN)

After her successful career transition, in January 2017, Sienna showed potential with comedic roles after a hilarious sit down with Matty Healy of 1975 and radio host Nick Grimshaw.

Sienna brightened everyone’s morning as she entered BBC Radio 1 for the breakfast show in London.

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In true Sienna Miller form, the actress stepped out in a black leather jacket during the morning. Underneath, Sienna wore a cozy-looking sweater with loose black culottes.

The actress finished her look with a pair of Ray-Ban round metal sunglasses, a Louis Vuitton Capucines bag in black leather, and a pair of Miu Miu suede platform sandals.

Sienna Miller stepped out in a leather jacket over a knitted sweaterSienna Miller stepped out in a leather jacket over a knitted sweater (Credit: Tony Oudot / WENN)

A Humorous Encounter with Mark Wahlberg

During the radio show, Sienna said she attended her first Golden Globes shortly after giving birth to her daughter, Marlowe.

The actress said Mark Wahlberg came up to hug her, which made her lactate. Fortunately, it didn’t show on her dress.

“I met him just six months after having a baby and I was still breastfeeding, but what he doesn’t know is that when he very sweetly gave me a big hug I lactated all over him!” the British beauty later said on BBC’s The Graham Norton Show. She gave birth to her daughter Marlowe Ottoline Layng Sturridge in July 2012 with her ex-beau Tom Sturridge.

Sienna Miller revealed she lactated on Mark Wahlberg the first time they metSienna Miller revealed she lactated on Mark Wahlberg the first time they met (Credit: BBC / YouTube)

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